Today i went back to work and heard another person commited suicide at the same block as the one that happen a few months ago.
This time, the person is a bit younger, young adult, lady, korean. Suppose to move back to her country today. Not sure what happen, but her parents cried very badly. My lady guard had to give the mum a hug before they finally shifted out.
Goodness, people must learn to handle pressure properly.
Really, dying is not the answer... you leave behind a lot of grief. And things are not really solved many a sometimes.
A lot of times, it is NOT the end; it is just that we haven't found the way out yet.
A lot of things can happen in our mind, in that spilt second when things happen...
When people push your buttons, you... slap them, punch them, plot a revenge?
When people hurt you, you.... hide, withdraw and isolate away? or... hurt them back, plus the people around them?
okie la, maybe you are not so bad a person. Maybe... you just curse them...? You say.. 'Wa, this kind of person God will judge ah! Steal my credit, still make me look bad somemore. hope someone will do it back to him.... Dont't need too much, 50 Times worse than what he did can le!'
Umm....... Hmm........ You know what i wanna say. Haa!
We really need to control ourselves; our mood, our temper, our thought life.
Control your thought life; Train your mind to think positively.
Never make a decision when you are highly pressurised, upset, angry...
The man who jumped had a quarrel the night before. The lady had to move back, no fights whatsoever, but i guess she's upset. Maybe she really didn't want to return for some reasons.
Whatever it is, the pressure, emotions and the 'its the end' thoughts, blinded all positive or possible solution from their mind.
Avoid making any decision until the pressure and emotions fade down, when you can think logically, with a clear mind. It may take sometime.
Oh yea, please remember to control your tongue. Don't hurt others in that moment.
Love God, love people, love yourself.
1 Cor 13: 8a... 'Love Never Fails...'
1 Cor 13: 13... 'And now abide faith, hope, love, these three; but the greatest of these is love. '
i'm home...